一个朋友发给我下面的文字，自己看了之后很有感触。发到论坛里给大家看看，希望也能够带给你们一些启示。
USED vs LOVED
消遣对被爱
While a man was polishing his new car, his 4 yr old son picked up a stone and scratched lines on the side of the car.
当一个男人再给他的新车抛光时，他4岁的儿子捡了一块石头并用石头在车的侧面划出痕迹。

In anger, the man took the child's hand and hit it many times not realizing he was using a wrench.
因为生气，他抓住儿子的手并打了很多次，他并没意识到他用的是扳手。

At the hospital, the child lost all his fingers due to multiple fractures.

在医院里，孩子因为手指的多处粉碎性骨折而失去了所有的手指。
When the child saw his father.....
with painful eyes he asked, 'Dad when will my fingers grow back?'

当孩子用他痛苦的眼睛看着他的父亲并问他“爸爸，什么时候我的手指能长出来？”

The man was so hurt and speechless; he went back to his car and kicked it a lot of times.
这个父亲非常痛苦也无语；他走回自己的车并踢了它很多次。

Devastated by his own actions.......
sitting in front of that car he looked at the scratches; the child had written 'LOVE YOU DAD'.
他坐在自己的车前时，看着那些划痕，他完全被自己的行为所击垮；他儿子所划的是“爱你爸爸”

The next day that man committed suicide. . .
第二天，他自杀了。
Anger and Love have no limits;

choose the latter to have a beautiful, lovely life & remember this:
愤怒和爱是无止境的，选择后者就拥有了一个美丽，美好的人生。记住：

Things are to be used and people are to be loved.
物是用来消遣的, 人是用来被爱的
The problem in today's world is that people are used while things are loved.
当今世界的问题是：人是用来消遣的, 物是用来被爱的
Let's try always to keep this thought in mind:

让我们在脑海中总是记住：

Things are to be used,
People are to be loved.
物是用来消遣的
人是用来被爱的
Watch your thoughts; they become words.
注意你的想法：他们会成为语言
Watch your words; they become actions.
注意你的语言：他们会成为行动
Watch your actions; they become habits.
注意你的行动：他们会成为习惯
Watch your habits; they become character;
注意你的习惯；他们会成为性格
Watch your character; it becomes your destiny.
注意你的性格；它会成为你的命运
[ 本帖最后由 lehaha06 于 09-11-18 21:23 编辑 ]

我这英文，看看还行，要是真翻译，我中文那点功底，比主任可差远了。
这样，等我有时间搞个中文版的吧。

看着你的翻译，我才意识到我自己翻译的多烂。